Your One is in Your Circle of Influence
I am continually amazed by how modern discoveries confirm the life and teachings of Jesus.
Notice that I didn’t say surprised; I said amazed.
https://positivepsychology.com/circles-of-influence/
Here is an example. Modern positive psychology discusses the concentric circles of concern, influence, and control.
The Circle of Control encompasses the aspects of life that we can directly control. It is the space where we can take meaningful action that makes a difference. This circle includes how I manage my time, money, and energy and how I respond to events in my life. The traditional spiritual practices of Scripture reading, prayer, church engagement, generosity, etc., are input activities I can control to shape the person I am becoming.
The Circle of Influence represents things beyond my immediate control, but my efforts can make some difference. This is the gray zone. I can make an effort in this area but cannot control outcomes.
The Circle of Concern refers to a broader array of external factors, challenges, and circumstances that I may care about but are clearly beyond my direct control, such as the economy, climate, weather, and the actions, reactions, behaviors, and feelings of others.
The Circes of Influence and Concern are perfect ways to think about the One Conversation in the Intentional Church community. Let me explain.
I came of age in church leadership when churches were planted to “reach and transform cities.” Many of my seminary friends went to “unreached areas” of the country to work at churches that had visions of being “regional impact churches.”
It had a hint of grandiosity, and many strategies were big and dynamic.
The motives were commendable, but the approach was somewhat impersonal and relied on marketing strategies to draw attendance.
This approach started with the Circle of Concern (city, region) and attempted to gather people into a Circle of Influence.
In contrast, our Intentional Church community starts with the Circle of Control (an individual growing as a disciple of Jesus), genuinely loving and caring for those in their Circle of Influence (the Ones they already know), and inviting them into a discipleship relationship with Christ.
Jesus modeled this method, which is ultimately more effective, even though it may feel less efficient in the short run.
This is not new information for the Intentional Church community, but it is a good reminder. The way we can make the most significant impact is to be disciples who make disciples in our Circle of Influence (our Ones).